About Therapy with Me

Hardships: We shall overcome!

You’ve got hardships. For how long? You might think, “I don’t know yet.”

I’ve experienced mine from the very beginning, born Code Blue with my umbilical cord around my neck. The umbilical cord is supposed to support life, yet each person must overcome it. That is to say that biology is supposed to be on our side. We can learn to overcome when biology seems unfriendly.

You’ve got difficulties.

How difficult? Your answer might be, “I don’t know yet.”

I was not born into the most parental and socially friendly environment. My parents didn’t know, and the people they associated with didn’t either! They were all consumed with evil Karma, and they didn’t know this, either.

My schoolmates and teachers were also unaware of the Karma they carried. I’ve found situations repeated throughout others’ and my lifespans.

Here’s the good news: We can overcome personal, familial, and societal evil Karma!

The choice arises from the experience of attunement.

Life experiences have taught me the value of attunement. I’m always amazed by the Awareness that arises from this skill. I am also amazed at how simple and natural it is for EVERYONE to engage. (Please, don’t confuse simple with easy. They are not synonyms!)

I look forward to each experience of attunement. It is a real privilege that reveals and transforms reality into Divinity. Can you imagine your life transformed from banal to Blessed and Blessed?

Many mothers – earthly mothers, divine mothers, kind mothers, fierce mothers, so many mothers – have become my best friends and teachers. They have nurtured me to the point where many of the bad seeds of life have failed to succeed, and the good seeds of Love, Life, and Joy thrive. I want to share these gifts and how to attain them abundantly with you.

The sharing of Heavenly Seeds is insufficient in and of themselves. You can go to the store and buy every seed in sight. You will still not have a bountiful garden that sustains life for all. The commitment to a relationship with your divine partners is what I know and teach. The commitment process nourishes and enriches life, making life well and worth living. Indeed, it makes one live a Life of Abundance where you can eat and share in the Fruits of the Divine!

Life is a learning process.

I have learned there is nothing wrong with suffering and nothing wrong with releasing it. There is nothing wrong with good karma or bad karma. How your life unfolds will be a function of your attunement skills. I began to understand this while volunteering with hospice patients and working with soldiers at Ft. Hood, especially terminal AIDS patients. (Yes, I’m old enough that the words ‘terminal’ and ‘AIDS’ went together.)

When my wife agreed to marry me, I continued to learn. She has shown a willingness to forgive me to the moon and back so many times! I finally learned to find Joy in the release of suffering with the birth of my son (now 16 years old).

I stayed vigilant in my learning with children and adolescents in inpatient psychiatric facilities, adults, and children in public mental health with dual diagnoses (meaning they had both developmental disorders and other psychiatric disorders), veterans and their families, private practice, and people in ordinary life.

By paying attention when doing ordinary things, like going to the grocery store, practicing Aikido, rock climbing, exercising, and so many other activities, I continue to learn.